Garage quoted me for work I don't think I need, how do I handle this?

[frostRider14]

I took my car in for a routine oil change and the mechanic came back with a long list of "urgent" repairs that would cost a small fortune. I have a bad feeling about it but I don't know enough about cars to argue confidently. A friend sent me some advice on this exact situation. He told me to read this detailed article about how some workshops add unnecessary repairs or inflate labor charges. It explains things like asking for a clear explanation, requesting photos of the problem, and even getting a second opinion without feeling rude. It also talks about the different types of spare parts and how to check if you are being charged fairly. I feel a bit more prepared now to go back and ask the right questions. Has anyone else been in this situation? How did you handle it when you suspected a mechanic was not being honest?